Just a moment – Guns and Suicide
I have shared this passage from Dogs of Babel by Carolyn Parkhurst before but I am sharing it now with guns on my mind:
‘Suicide is just a moment, Lexy told me. This is how she described it to me. For just a moment, it doesn’t matter that you’ve got people who love you and the sun is shining and there’s a movie coming out this weekend that you’ve been dying to see. It hits you all of a sudden that nothing is ever going to be okay, ever, and you kind of dare yourself. You pick up a knife and press it gently to your skin, you look out a nineteenth-story window and you think, I could just do it. I could just do it. And most of the time, you look at the height and you get scared, or you think about the poor people on the sidewalk below – what if there are kids coming home from school and they have to spend the rest of their lives trying to forget this terrible thing you’re going to make them see? And the moment’s over. You think about how sad it would’ve been if you never got to see that movie, and you look at your dog and wonder who would’ve taken care of her if you had gone. And you go back to normal. But you keep it there in your mind.’
I think knowing suicide is just a moment is what scares me the most about this disease and it is why I work so hard to make sure I have so many ways to combat the very real feeling of wanting to end my life when the desire to do so starts to feel overwhelming.
It is also why I am relieved that neither myself nor my parents (whose house I am currently living in) own a gun.
Yes, I am going there.
Over half of all suicides completed are by gun and 85% of people who attempt suicide with a gun are successful.
I have spent many nights wishing I could get a hold of a gun and then the ‘moment’ has passed and I am grateful I didn’t have a firearm.
Our trigger finger can work much quicker than our rational mind and the number of suicides is on the rise in this country.
Of course if you are determined you can always find a way to end your life but why make it easier?
Just something to think about.